Kate Donnelly

1983 - 2003
LocationHalifax
Age19 years
Cause of DeathRoad Traffic Collision
Date of Birth22/12/1983
Date of Death26/07/2003
Visitors1,362 since 23/07/2009
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My twin sister born three minutes apart but shared a childhood so precious nothing comes close to
the happy memories you have given to me.

One of the most trustworthy, reliable people to have ever graced the planet. More importantly she
was my sister, a beautiful precious daughter, and an amazing wonderful best friend to all who knew
her.

She made me laugh, she made me cry but more so she made me feel loved beyond anything i have ever
felt or ever will feel in my life......loosing you was the hardest thing I had to deal with and not
one day goes by that i dont long to hold you to have you tell me you love me and just sit with me
one more time.

Forever and always in my heart and by my side. That night you died part of me died with you and
nothing will fill the loneliness i feel now your not here. This is for you my Kate:-

When the emptiness of missing you is more than i can bear
I whisper "Kate I love you" and always find you there

My heart still aches with sadness
my silent tears still flow

For what it meant to loose you
No-one will ever know.


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Come on you bulls!!! :- D xx

Hi Kate,
I know we didnt no each other very well but whenever I saw you, you had me in stitches!! Cant say I was too impressed with your taste in rughy teams tho... but then again I suppose someone had to support Halifax hehe!

Can still see you sat there in the park saying verse after verse of blue sox songs... Hilarious hun. And putting the bulls down, they werent that bad lol.

Remember how u and Em used to write me letters whilst u were at school???? Sure Ive still got them in my loft.

You made an impact on me, even though I didnt know you that well so cant imagine how those close to you felt. You were always smiling and such fun to be around!!

Cant believe god took someone as good as you... Anyway hun, hope your ok up there!!

Take care sweetie.... on and by the way Kate... " come on u bulls hehe"

LOve Nikki xxxxx

Nichola Worby (Friend) October 3, 2009

Olivers First Day!!!!!

Hi Kate,

Wow can you believe it, Oliver has gone to school today!!! I cried my heart out this morning and maybe a little last night, i wish you were here to see him he loves you soooo soooo sooo sooo much and asks if you will come and see him, i have explained to him that you do come and see him but not like everyone else does, he asked if you ever saw Santa so im guessing he wants u to have a word with him hee hee!

He looked so grown up in his uniform this morning, dad took him for his shoes at Clarks. Thats where we got ours from apparently dad was saying he took us there but we got ours on the cheap hee hee!! You would have laughed at Dads face when they said "Thats £34.00" i thought he was going to keel over and then they asked if he wanted something else too i was cringing but was still giggling!

I miss those times but im glad we had what we did. Me you and Dad, how our world seem so perfect back then eh?? Before that horrible ex of mine and before that witch was brought into our lives, anyway lets not go there cause you were the only one who really knew what i thought so no point in repeating myself.

Miss you more and more Kate i really do. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I just wish you were here, i see other people with their sisters on pics and stuff and i want you so badly sometimes i just want to come and be with you

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Emma Donnelly (Sister) September 2, 2009

In the Arms of my Angel Kate

I have not turned my back on you ♥
So there is no need to cry.♥
I'm watching you from heaven♥
Just beyond the morning sky.♥

I've seen you almost fall apart♥
When you could barely stand.♥
I asked an angel to comfort you♥
And watched her take your hand.♥

She told me you are in more pain ♥
Than I could ever be.♥
She wiped her eyes and swallowed hard♥
Then gave your hand to me.♥

Although you may not feel my touch♥
Or see me by your side.♥
I've whispered that I love you♥
While I wiped each tear you cried.♥

So please try not to ache for me ♥
We'll meet again one day.♥
Beyond the dark and stormy sky♥
A rainbow lights the way.♥

Emma Donnelly (Sister) August 21, 2009

01.08.2003 Celebration of your Life

Well tomorrow is the 1st August again, i will be going down to the church tomorrow to light a candle for you again.

I can still remember that day maybe clearer now than then. I hope you like the songs i picked for you, i know for a fact you loved that Blue song "Flexin" i still have your tshirt from when you went to see them with cassie and i even went to see them after you left me hee hee hee it was for you really!

God i wish i could have the chance to sit with you again Kate, were you there with me that day i came to see you at the funeral home, i stayed for 3 hours but i had to go home eventually, i just wanted to stay with you and never let go of your hand. You know what haunts me though, is that i could see the sticthing where they had done the post mortom just below your neck you could see where the stitches were pulling it, i managed to cover it though. Im sorry your coffin was full of junk too, do you still have the bracelet i put on for you? and i hope you read my letter too!

Dad misses you Kate, well misses you is an understatement, he isnt Dad anymore not our dad. He is wonderful with Oliver and now he is married (not to that bitch either to Sharon hee hee) but you know what its just not the same anymore. Not in a bad way but in the way that makes you feel alone, well it makes me feel alone anyway. It was always us three now its mum bob and their side of the family and now Dad, Sharon and their family i feel like a misfit, you know something that accidentally got in the way a while ago.

Anyway i just want to say that i will be thinking of you tomorrow like i do every second of every single day. I hope im making you proud.

I love you Kate xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Emma Donnelly (Sister) July 31, 2009

Your Memorial Bash

Hey Sis!

Well i hope i managed to do you proud on Friday i tried my best and can you believe all your friends came from Bradford! Dad even managed to get the courage to come down and help me send your balloons on the way. We managed to raise around £300.00 from your balloons and flowers and collection tins!

Sorry for the idiotic people who cannot control themselves on such a respectful night but Kate you know what there like "down foot" anyway what goes around comes around sis no-one ruins my big sisters day not ever!

Oliver (your gorgeous nephew now 4) learnt what the 26th July stands for and thats "Auntie Kates Special Day when she went to heaven to be an angel". You know he knows all about you and he talks to you as im sure you're quite well aware of. He was trying to do the dance to a Michael Jackson video and can you guess which song it was?? It was to BAD, that was the first album mum and dad bought us do you remember that hee hee!


It was hard yesterday sis just looking at the clock and knowing exactly what you would have been doing at that time..anyway i dont want to be miserable but what i do want to say is this:-

God i miss you so so so much every year gets harder, but you know what hurts the most is that every year it also gets harder to deal with the fact your not here with me...its always been Kate & Emma...i dont want to be just Emma i want to be Kate and Emma!

I know you are always with me i can feel you with me. I am lucky your my sister but what i am even luckier for is having you as my twin. Thats a bond no other normal sister and brother share..ours is a bond beyond belief a love and connection so strong it cant even be broke when you are in heaven.

To bring you back and have you with us well what can i say to that?? You know what im thinking!!!!

I love you Kate Donnelly and im sorry for not being the sister i should have been and the one you wanted...but no matter what i love you. To say i LOVED you is a past tense meaning your gone but your not gone your with me and im with you forever and always. I dont want to stop typing to you but its time to go. Come and see me at home again to let me know you have read this.

I love you my twin my sister my soul mate!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Emma Donnelly (Sister) July 27, 2009

Kate

Kate you are always in my thoughts, you are so missed by al your friends.
We hold close the memories we have of you and treasue them.
I can't believe 6 years have passed with out you but it still feels like yesterday when i last saw you
We had drinks in Ludd foot then me and cassie waited at the bus stop with you untill your bus came.... that was the last time we spoke in person and i still remember that night.
Love and miss you loads Cheryl x

Cheryl Benson July 24, 2009

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Mercedes Ortiz July 24, 2009

Gone Too Soon

G od took you gently by the hand,
O n wings of love to another land,
N estled in the clouds up high,
E ternal live he gave you in the sky,

T he ones left behind have broken hearts,
O h they did not want you to depart,
O ne day you will all meet again,

S aving a place and no more pain,
O n wings of love in Heaven above,
O ur hearts are filled with lots of love,
N ever more then a heartbeat away,

Gone too soon but remembered every single day.

Jennie Sim July 23, 2009

Hello beautiful Kate, I didnt know about you until today when your sister Emma contacted me,Im so sorry that you were snatched from your family in the same circumstances that my beautiful daughter Naomi was taken from us. I hope now that Emma and I are in touch that you will now be friends and remain so.
I know that you will have settled in to your new home now and that you will have many new friends and will have made a new life for yourself, I hope you will understand that this is not the case for those who love you deeply and were left behind, life for them will never be the same as the lonliness frustrations the many questions which cant be answered and the missing you are only a few of the emotions they have to endure, no matter how much they try to face each dark lonely and long day to make you proud every waking moment you are on their minds and pain engulfs them, each day makes them stronger to cope with all of this but it doesnt stop it and its a burden they will gladly carry with them until they are back with you again, when once again they will be happy. Please understand that life on earth is so different to where you are and these emotions cannont be shrugged off. I know you will be watching over your family and guiding them where you can, please do like Naomi does and let them know your there from time to time, although people think were mad, we know its for real and it all brings us so much comfort to know that you only left your body, you are not dead and that you have not gone from their lives,
Sending you much love and big hugs
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Bev Gough July 23, 2009

For My Loved Ones

I stood by your bed last night;
I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying you found it hard to sleep.
I spoke to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
'It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here.'
I was close to you at breakfast,
I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached to me.
I was with you at the shops today; your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.
I flew with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently landed on you; I smiled and said, 'it's me.'
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair. I tried so hard to let you know, that I was there.
It's possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, 'I never went away.'
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning and say 'good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning.'
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll fly across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you,
there is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out...
then come home to be with me. (By Anon)

Donna Johnson Nee Parr July 23, 2009
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